Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

If the men you date don't accept your word on everything, try going out with men who belong to church groups. Those people are less likely to question anything they're told.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

If a man gives you a religious symbol as a gift, as long as it's gold or another precious metal, go ahead and accept it. There are places that can melt it down for you.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

Don't assume that newly sober men will spend what was their drinking money on you. Sober men are less likely to make spontaneous purchases for their dates, and are less fun in general.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

Regularly reading the obituary page can alert you to a newly single man. Remember, it isn't just the old and infirm that die. Sometimes a younger man will become a widow. Show up for the funeral, and offer him a shoulder to cry on. Chances are he'll want to thank you later with a nice dinner.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

If you're looking to meet a man, don't wait until eight or nine o'clock to hit the bars. Men with white collar jobs tend to stop off at their favorite taverns right after work. So be there by five, and grab a good seat where you're able to see each man as he arrives. Getting to a man early enough means he still has time to take you out to a nice dinner.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

If you're at a bar and you notice there are a lot of other women there, a good way to draw interest away from your competition is to loudly say, "Isn't it fun how most of the women here are actually men?" Then, to make sure there is no question about your gender, add, "Good for them!"

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

A good way to meet men is to hang around the bars near military bases. If a soldier is due to be deployed to the Middle East soon, it should be fairly easy to convince him to spend his whole paycheck on you. Just remind him that there isn't much over there worth spending money on, and that his accommodations will be provided. If he still hesitates, tell him he'll probably die over there, so he might as well spend what money he has now to enjoy himself and show you a good time.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

If a man shows up for your date this weekend with some Valentine's Day chocolates, don't be impressed. All that candy is now in the clearance bin at the grocery store. 

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

A good place to meet men is a casino. Pull up a chair next to the ticket redemption machine. That's a spot where you'll be sure to just meet winners. Not only that, but you'll be able to see on the screen how much each of the men has won, so it will be easy to decide which men you should flirt with.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

One convenient way to meet men is to sell items through the online classifieds. Be sure to stipulate in your ad that the buyer must come to pick up the items, that you will not ship them. If you don't have anything at home that you think the right men would be interested in, the next time you're out, pick up a few things, like old sports magazines or a fishing rod. When a man contacts to inquire about an item, make a few inquiries of your own. If you learn he's married, tell him the item is no longer available. It would do you no good to sell something to a man who's already taken. And it would add more work, as you'd have to replace the item to sell it again.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

I've read there's a new dating trend in which you let your friends vet possible matches for you. I think this is wonderful. First you should expand your group of friends as much as possible so that you have a large number of people out there working on your behalf. Be sure to pick friends who are less attractive than you. You don't want any potential matches getting stolen by a friend. And be sure to let all your friends know the lowest acceptable salary for any potential match. Then sit back and enjoy some chocolate while they find you the right man.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

I just read about a new trend in the dating world. It's called honesty, and while it may sound nice, I should caution you against fully embracing this trend. Telling a man all your needs on the first date is likely to scare him away. And then you won't have any of your needs met.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

If you didn't land a top executive at the company picnic, don't be discouraged. In the corporate world, there is traditionally a summer work slump, and so many of those important men end up in the bars once the business day is over. If you've memorized their photos from the company website, you know who to be on the lookout for.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

It's summertime, the time when many corporations have company picnics. This means rich, eligible men are out and about in public areas, and access to them is not difficult to get. Once you discover where such a function is being held, plan your day accordingly. Most company websites have photos of the top executives, so memorize those faces before you go. Once you spot one of those men, set up your blanket right next to his. As you begin to unpack your basket, wait until you're sure he can hear you, and then say, "Silly me, I brought a wineglass, but forgot the wine." If he's a gentleman, he'll be happy to share his wine with you. After a few glasses of wine together, you'll be well on your way to getting that important first date.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

If a man is enthusiastic about you, open up to him! It's unusual that a man wants to know so much about you, not only your favorite food and color, but the city where you were born, the street you grew up on, the name of your first pet, and your mother's maiden name. Don't be too guarded. In my recent experience, the more a man learns, the more excited he becomes.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

If you have the good fortune of being within driving distance of the California wildfires, then you are within driving distance of hundreds of out-of-town firefighters, who are both lonely and in need of back rubs after a week of exhausting work. So get yourself dolled up, book a nice hotel room and let those firefighters know you're there.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

If you are eager to find a man, Florida might be the place for you. Now that the state government there has enacted its age verification law, making it difficult to access adult websites, the men are getting restless. Take advantage of this perfect opportunity. The men there will be only too happy to shell out money for an excellent dinner in order to get a little attention.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

While an artificial intelligence companion might seem like an exciting option in today's dating world, keep in mind that no computer-generated partner is going to buy you a nice dinner and expensive jewelry. So don't waste your time with this nonsense. It's best to go the tried-and-true route of meeting men at bars.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

If you are visiting part of your extended family in another state, be sure to get a list of all the relatives who live in that area before you go home with someone from the local saloon.

Dating Tips From The Winsome Women

After a speed dating event, don't wait for the host to send you the results. The most eligible man might end up with multiple matches, and you don't want to have to wait for him to weed through your competition. Instead, ask him yourself right there to take you out for drinks or a late dinner. Since the two of you are already dressed up, it makes good sense to take advantage of the moment.